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Mommy Tips

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Mommy tip: Help your children to be brave. Give them hope & strength.


Years ago I heard a man say "I was brought up in a household
 where fear was not tolerated."
  It was a new concept for me but I liked it.  I remember being surprised at how young & easily children could be afraid.  I want to be brave & wise
 and instill both of these traits in my children. 

I remember in one of my Psychology classes the professor explaining that feelings are a physical reaction in one's body.  I believe fear is a feeling.  

It is a feeling that is obviously indicating some kind of danger,
 whether is it real or perceived.  

When it comes to feelings we can often times make a choice.




Here are two possible reactions to fear:



When my kids have gotten scared I've had them acknowledge the fear, then look for solutions or change.  I also have them verbally say something like "I will not be afraid of this anymore because..." I'll even have them repeat it several times if it was something really scary.

I want my kids to learn how to manage and overcome fear.  Deuteronomy 3:28 says: "Help him to be brave. Give him hope & strength."

When it comes to us Mommies overcoming our fears this proverb is really encouraging:



Beautiful Mothers be clothed in strength and dignity.  Face your future 
and your children's future with expectant joy.
Keep up the good work!
Love,
Rosa